Valentine's Day

Last year, I wrote a post about how much I hated the movie, Valentine's Day. This year, I did not see a movie for this day we celebrate love. However, I would like to suggest something different. Our small group is currently going through a study by Chip Ingram called, "Experiencing God's Dream for Your Marriage." I would suggest that the best gift you could give your spouse this Valentine's Day is a commitment to your marriage. This means working hard daily to do the things that strengthen that bond including communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, and understanding differences. Also, it is a great help to join a small group to encourage and challenge one another in marriage. (I enjoy our times-Burkholder's, Jantz's, Hiebert's & Frary's) This provides accountability and support. One thing Chip Ingram suggests is doing one thing each day for your spouse from their care list. To learn more, buy the series or put together a small group and go through it together.

Now, I might be unromantic for suggesting this, but maybe more important than chocolates or roses is showing love to your spouse in such a way that they know they are loved. For some this might mean a small gift, but for most it is probably something without a cost, but just as important such as a love letter, dinner to talk with each other, for guys-doing the dishes or laundry, for ladies-complementing your husband or saying thanks for their work & how they provide for the family. Either way, figure out what they appreciate and do it daily. Who knows? This might be the best Valentine gift you have ever given.